2021.10.22 18:58 Throwawaytoday303 Poor Alisha Edwards
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2021.10.22 18:58 kchoptalk 7 things to do in KC this weekend: October 22–24, 2021
Where to be and what to do in KC the weekend of October 22-24
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2021.10.22 18:58 FocusOnThePie me_irl
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2021.10.22 18:58 LCGSmithson How do I stop having dreams for good?
2021.10.22 18:58 Azril99 Quadruple Ocean Monument [1.17.1]
World Spawn [130 70 -159] which is a small island with only one tree. The coordinates for the ocean monuments:
2021.10.22 18:58 sad_crock Does is count?
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2021.10.22 18:58 bluemoonn12 confused about relationship; am I the bad guy?
I'm writing this post because I honestly don't know what to do. Im an F (25) & I've been in a relationship for a year and 3 months with my bf (25). First off, he has a lot of baggage from his past relationship. I met him about 4 months after him and his previous gf broke up (they were together for almost 5 years), and we started dating around 6 months after he was out. Everything is cool, except he has a child with said ex, and she does not make things easy. I promise its not bias (i call him out when he acts like a jackass) but it causes strain in our relationship.
Since May we have fought pretty often. Its starting to make me feel depressed, and in August we nearly broke up for good. May is around the time he started to take anti depressants, and they seem to be doing more harm than good. He told me he wanted to get off of them, but he's horrible at confrontation, and when he went to the doctor he didnt speak up so doc just switched the dosage & type. Yet, he hasn't been to a therapist in years to get a diagnosis or to get things off his chest. One day he wants to go, next day he refuses because he doesn't think it will help, and because he works 5 days a week from 7-3:30, (plus a 40 minute trip home) he wont give up his free time. We argue about free time; i don't think its alot to ask for him to once in a while come see me or pick me up or meet up whatever when hes done. I know when you get home you want to unwind (i work too and am a full time student!) but he makes it seem like I am taking up his free time, he'll say things like "I already spend all of my free time with you". It makes me feel like I am an option, not a priority. Will never ask me out to dinner or bring me anything, I always ask him if he ate, he won't bother to do it for me. I have to ask for everything and im sorry thats not how it should be when i do things for him because i want to, not because i have to. My birthday passed not too long ago and instead of putting money aside for it, he showed up with nothing, realized i was upset, then took the hint and borrowed his moms card for money. (he actually lost his wallet a few days prior to my bday with his stuff in it, in any case). but still. we went on a vacation out of state for the weekend of his bday/our 1 year, and I paid for 75% of everything. Im tired.
We also disagree about money. He has no savings account, and while he makes good money, weekly have of his pay goes to daycare for his kid. I was taught to save money every week; one week it may only be $5.00, the next, could be $200, as long as you save something. and it works perfectly for me that I'm able to do more things. He never wants to go out, never does anything romantic or surprising, and I feel like he takes me for granted. He is always preoccupied with the situation with his kid; him and everyone he is close to swears to me he has nothing but resentment towards the ex, and I believe that. I can't help but think if she wasn't such a spiteful person things would be better because his mindset would be better. I feel it is up to him to pick his own pieces up, and he argues to say he can't. back to therapy, he's emotionally unavailable and needs to go. He knows how badly I want a child of my own, and he says he feels like hes not good enough because he can't provide. Meanwhile the baby mama is calling her boyfriend the kids dad, after intentionally getting pregnant (took herself off birth control and didn't say anything; admitted she did it on purpose to his mother & his friend). but thats another story.
it's the classic "if you're unhappy why don't you leave?" because when he is not in his mood he is great to me, and for me. I have trauma that makes me uncomfortable around men, especially romantically, and he is my first real boyfriend (i met him at 23. yes it really took me that long) and I feel like if he doesn't sort out his past bs accordingly than we are never gonna make it. Im not someone who needs material things, but theres nothing wrong with me asking for a secure future when i am willing to dso the same for him. The reason I am hesitant to leave is because if it were me, I wouldn't want someone I love to just up and leave me because i was struggling with my mental health and finances. My issue is he doesn't wanna get better; in fact, he told me he is scared of being happy. He thinks if i get pregnant i will do the same thing to him as his ex. In his mothers words, she "really did a number on him." I'm getting older, and I want to have a happy ending with him. But i feel like he does not want to give it to me.
do i expect too much? hes an introvert, im an extrovert, i need affection, he likes space. So is it me? Theres a lot ive left out, but thanks to anyone who took the time to read this mess.
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2021.10.22 18:58 Masked_loner Free BCH
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2021.10.22 18:58 Whit3_Wol7 Help with social/sport invitation
Hello there, I don't socialise that much (kinda why I'm here.) Here's my story:
The other day a guy I don't talk too much invited me to play volleyball after school with 2 other people. I did and it was fun. (Mainly cause it was my first time actually playing volleyball with other people rather than practicing myself). I was invited because the 4th player wasn't coming, so I filled in.
We're not exactly friends, but they're nice guys. I would like to play volleyball again with them but the last thing I wanna do is be too pushy and then not get invited again. I was thinking of asking the principal of the school if we could use it during the break (since he'll still be there) but I feel like that might come across as a little weird. And again, I don't wanna be pushy, since I was invited by them, not vice versa.
Do yous think it would be best to leave it? I mean just wait and see what happens and then probably just play again in 2 weeks? Orrrr should I do something else. I thanked them already for inviting me and said I had fun and stuff. Again, I just don't wanna be pushy.
Also the first time I got invited to anything in a long time and I don't really know how to act😅.
Any help/advice would be much appreciated
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2021.10.22 18:58 Dreamfyre95 *chuckles* "I'm in danger."
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2021.10.22 18:58 SoundmanGrant Interplanetary washing machine
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2021.10.22 18:58 Niqqss Seeing Double Challenge
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2021.10.22 18:58 rmschanz I think we’re good . . . .
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2021.10.22 18:58 Bubblient What does the Rammie Giveaway consist of?
I just got an email from Youtooz saying that I won the Rammie Giveaway, does that mean I get the whole collection? I'm so utterly confused and excited at the same time.
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2021.10.22 18:58 GothamCityDevil First apartment , first set up. Shoutout to the GME apes for making this all possible. Ignore mousepad, recommendations welcome!
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2021.10.22 18:58 mtlnyc320 Fahim Anwar - Sex and Dating (totally understand why Rogan loves this guy after watching this)
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2021.10.22 18:58 KingREX_24 Tough Decision...
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2021.10.22 18:58 Haroldthedarold Circus baby design.
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2021.10.22 18:58 Zephyr_zhy_ Storage capacity?
Hello guys, I'm new in the laptop world so I was wondering if they have a maximum storage capacity? Or can I just go nuts with it? I own a Legion 5P 15ARH05H with the Ryzen 5 4600H and RTX 2060.
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2021.10.22 18:58 Myidd whats the thing that is really "old but gold"?
2021.10.22 18:58 Puzzleheaded-Log8231 New app for custom NFT alerts is about to launch
Hey guys i just found out about this new app that finds the best NFT projects for you to invest in. The app sends push notifications to your computer or phone so you get in the projects as soon as possible.
Check it out, join the discord for more info, link in comments.
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2021.10.22 18:58 lavendermaples Need advice about my friendship because I am a little confused and think other perspectives might help
I'll start off by saying that I have had BPD for a few years now, but I really have not attempted to deal with it until recently. The reason I think I ultimately decided to work on myself was because it was impacting my friend, and I want to keep them in my life in a healthier way because they are truly important to me and I want them to be comfortable around me.
This friend (I'll call them C) had a rough time earlier this year and I think this was a catalyst that led to us having an unhealthy attachment to each other until a few weeks ago. I have been trying to unlearn a lot of my worse behaviors, and they have too especially because seasonal depression is hitting C pretty hard, which is probably what resulted in the discussion we had last night – The discussion cleared up a lot of misunderstandings, but I'm also left a little confused.
C and I kind of had a heart to heart because they felt like a bad friend for the last few weeks because the seasonal depression has made them tired and irritable and thus they haven't really had the energy to talk or hangout much, which because of BPD I misinterpreted as them disliking/not wanting to be friends with me since they did not previously make this clear to me. I reassured them that I'm not upset about it but I just need them to maybe be more honest or transparent after they admitted that so I don't misunderstand again, and they told me they need space because they feel codependent and want to kind of discover themselves; I am completely okay with this and I want them to be happier and more comfortable with themselves. They said that they still think of me as their best friend and they still want to talk/hangout just less than before and I told them they can initiate any sort of conversation or hangout so I'm not crossing their boundaries. The issue on my end is that now I'm not sure how to navigate the friendship without feeling clingy or that I'm making them uncomfortable. I don't want to make them feel pressured but I also don't want them to be the only one putting in energy to keep the friendship going.
I am aware my perspective is skewed because of BPD so maybe the solution seems more obvious to others and just needs to be stated clearly to me, but I don't know quite where to go from here because right now everything feels very "up in the air" if that makes any sense. C means a lot to me because they are really patient and caring (not to go off topic but they are just a really wonderful person) and I want to make sure both of us are happy but especially them. I think just any advice relevant to the situation is appreciated, and maybe advice on how to support C without being overbearing.
Sorry if this was long or confusing.
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2021.10.22 18:58 mrmchardy9 Darkrai now 7262 7695 8556
2021.10.22 18:58 Fanofeverything2003 The chipmunks never addressed Dave as “Dad”.
2021.10.22 18:58 69earthling How many of you are lonely living on campus?